Saturday, December 27, 2008

Follow your dream

photo of Twilight Times
Follow your dreams wherever they lead you to,
Don't let worries stand in your way.
T
ry not to look back, but always move forward.

L
ive each moment to the fullest.

Believe that you are capable of getting what you aim for in life,
that you have strength within you to overcome any difficulties.
Y
ou can never dream too big or set your sights too high,
go as far as where your dreams take you and you'll be amazed with what you can do!

by : Positive Ideas

DREAMS - ARE - WISHES - YOUR - HEART - MAKES


  • Dreams are today's answers to tomorrow's questions
  • It takes a lot of courage to show your dreams to someone else
  • Dream the dreams that have never been dreamt
  • Hold fast to dreams for if dreams die, life is a broken winged bird that cannot fly
  • Judge of your natural character by what you do in your dreams
  • A man is not old until regrets take the place of dreams
  • Do your dreming with eyes wide open, and do your looking back with eyes closed
  • When your heart is in your dream, no request is too extreme
  • Don't be afraid of the space between your dreams and reality. If you can dream it, you can make it so.
  • Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die tomorrow
  • Dreams no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men So, dream big
  • All men of action are dreamers
  • Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born
  • A dream is your creative vision for your life in the future. You must break out of your current comfort zone and become comfortable with the unfamiliar and the unknown
  • We are the music makers. We are the dreamers of the dreams
  • We grow great by dreams. All big men are dreamers
  • Dreams have their place in managerial activity, but they need to be kept severely under control
  • One of the most adventurous things left us is to go to bed. For no one can lay a hand on our dreams
  • Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it will bring back, a new life, a new friend, a new love, a new country

Boxing Day 26th December 2008

What is Boxing Day?
Boxing Day is the day after Christmas day, celebrated on 26th December every year.

The Origin of Boxing Day : The name 'Boxing Day' originates from the tradition of putting gifts in boxes for the less fortunate.

Some call it as the Feast of St. Stephen, the first Christian martyr. St. Stephen was one of the seven original deacons of the Christian Church who were ordained by the Apostles to care for widows and the poor. For the success of his preaching and his devotion to Christ, St. Stephen was stoned to death by a mob. As he died, he begged God not to punish his killers.

Boxing Day dates back to past centuries when it was the custom for the wealthy to give gifts to employees or to people in a lower social class, most especially to household servants and other service personnel.

Where is boxing day celebrated?
Boxing day is known to have began in Great Britain then later passed on to other English countries such as Canada, Australia and New Zealand...but not in USA.


Dinner at Khun Thai at Boxing Day - 26th Dec.2008

Thursday, December 25, 2008

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL


Christmas wishes & poems
It is that time of the year again, May this Christmas be bright and cheerful and may the New Year begin on a prosperous note! Merry X'mas to all my friends out there....
Friendship
is for young and old Precious like a pot of gold; Friendship is a sunny day, As fresh and sweet as new mown hay; Friendship comforts in the night Like a star that's shining bright; Friendship is a gently thing, Soft as a dove that's on the wing; Friendship is a joy to see And is the bond twix you and me; Friendship is there for all to find, The secret saviour of mankind This Christmas message that I send Is enjoy it well,
my special friend.

Thank you for being my friend.
"Christmas gift suggestions: To your enemy, forgiveness. To an opponent, tolerance. To a friend, your heart. To a customer, service. To all, charity. To every child, a good example. To yourself, respect. "
--by Oren Arnold

"Christmas is forever, not for just one day, for loving, sharing, giving, are not to put away like bells and lights and tinsel, in some box upon a shelf. The good you do for others is good you do yourself. "
--by Norman W. Brooks

The History of Christmas

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Reuniting With Old Friends and Ex-Lovers

By Ed Opperman Platinum Quality Author

Over time, we all lose touch with individuals from our past - old high school flames, distant relatives, childhood friends. It might have occurred because we drifted apart, because we lost an address, because we moved - and if that person married or remarried and took a different name, tracking him or her down can become even more difficult!

Nonetheless, locating an old friend or loved one is far from impossible. Here are a few good rules of thumb to bear in mind, however:

1. If you are thinking about him/her, he/she is most likely thinking about you. It's simply the way close relationships work!
2. People are astonishingly forgiving. I've never once had an instance wherein I found someone from my past who was upset to hear from me. Most of the time, people are absolutely elated!
3. A first love is always the strongest love - and the kind of love you had for a high school sweetheart and, if you are interested, can often be rekindled! I've seen this happen a hundred times or more.

Everything I have learned about tracking people down tends to leave me wondering as to why people don't do it more! If you are reading this and hesitating because you don't know where to start, and/or are afraid the trail has gone cold - trust me, you are wrong! And doing a little digging isn't as expensive as you might think. Really, what excuse do you have left for not getting started on such a project? How much longer do you want to wait?

Databases all over the world are set up to so that people can easily and inexpensively track one another down - for all sorts of reasons. Even using an old street address, a date of birth, an email address, a phone number, you'll often see impressive results!

That being said, you should be on guard against scams promising you instant results in trying to locate that old friend, because most of these will simply return outdated, stale information that is of no real use to you. Take the time to search out a reliable and well-reputed private investigator. You won't be sorry!

Ed Opperman is president of Opperman Investigations Inc. If you need to run a people search or skip trace contact http://www.emailrevealer.com

2009 Chinese Horoscope Prediction


WELCOME YEAR 2009,
WELCOME YEAR OF OX


January 26, 20
09, (or the year 4707 in the Chinese calendar), begins the "Year of the Earth Ox".


As in Chinese h
oroscope, year 2009 will be the year of the Ox.
Ox is fortunate to have the character of being stable and persevering.

AN OX BORN PERSON :

It is believe that being born in the year of Ox, the person would be a tolerant person with strong character. Not many people could equal the resolution and fearlessness the Ox exhibits when deciding to accomplish a task or an objective as Ox sign symbolizes prosperity though fortitude and hard work without complaints at work or at home. They know that they will succeed through hard work and sustained efforts, and do not believe in get-rich-quick schemes.


The strong character in them are person with diligence, reliability, sincerity, strength and sound judgement. But, don't expect these lumbering souls to have a sparkling sense of humor or be style conscious...it's not part of their precious package!

WHAT WILL YEAR 2009 HAS IN-STORE FOR US ALL?
As for what will the year be or bring for us all, well, according to Lilian Too, the year 2009 promises peace and harmony and an auspicious wave of success, prosperity and growth luck that is certain to please almost everyone. This is because all animal signs benefit from several positive indications that will bring a genuinely good year filled with good news and great expectations. This is going to be a year of double earth - when steady, hard working Ox rules, bringing increased effectiveness and better productivity of efforts all round. despite it being a double earth year, there are no excuse to cause trouble and in fact, it is going to be a well balance year.

The twelve months from February 4th 2009 to February 4th 2010 will support people in leadership positions. Those who have recently risen to high office or were promoted last year, whether in Government or in Commerce, will feel the benefits of 2009's high energy chi. Such people will enjoy the friendly buoyancy of benevolent winds and waters that translate into positive flow of auspicious heaven luck. They benefit from a special vitality that aids their judgments and their decision making processes so the risk of making mistakes is considerably reduced in 2009. Luck rises at first in small doses but as the revitalizing effects are felt and the year progresses, good fortune outcomes bring smiles to faces.



Well, below are the prediction for Chinese horoscope animal sign of Boar, my own chinese horoscope that I've found and wish to share. To those that do not belong to the same Chinese horoscope with me or Dog (which can be found on this page), well, here's the link :

Chinese Animal Predictions for 2009.
Year of the Yin Earth Ox (Ji Chou)








Michael Hanna - Feng Shui Shop - 2009 prediction


Boar
I am sure you have come across some websites or books predicting 2009 to be bad for the Pig but I do not think it will be that bad at all. There will be some things you need to be aware off but providing you follow this advice and also our annual flying star advice the year should be okay.

You must be very careful signing contracts and make sure you get them double and triple checked and then check them all over again. With regards to wealth, business and career, 2009 can be a year of seeds you planted over the last few years which will now blossom, so please make the most of this year; this is particularly true for Pigs born in 1971.

Your busy lifestyle can cause stomach problems this year so please be careful, I would place a brass Wu Lou beside your bed especially if it is located in the north or west.

For the Pig in business and career this year will be much better than last although you should not boast too much with colleagues or competitors as there are a few people out there that may want to back stab you and tell many lies to make you look bad, make sure you wear your protection animal for the year and more importantly remember my advice as being prepared is good. In business you may also be offered a partnership and you should look at this as being positive, ensure you spend time looking over any small print on contracts.

The secret for all Pigs this year is money will come in but you have to make sure you keep hold of it. For females it can be an emotional year and possibilities of sadness may creep over stronger than usual, you should keep some hematite beads close to you to help overcome this. You may find the year brings a few challenges but you will overcome them and the problems you had in 2008 will be resolved even though new problems may take their place, you will look at the year in November 2009 and say “it really wasn’t that bad”. PS Do not forget to say “thank you” they are two small words but have such a big impact on people’s lives.

You are in affinity with the Tiger. For your protection, you should have a key chain pendant of a Tiger.

To enhance wealth and career in 2009 place four pieces of deep smoky quartz crystal, a piece of deep blue sodalite crystal together with four very auspicious i-ching coins in the south, this cure is extremely important in 2009 and can only be used in certain years, you also must place eight pieces of Jasper Hematite quartz crystal (you should not use normal hematite) along with two larger than average auspicious Chinese i-ching coins in the northeast, the coins must be placed in a certain order and if you follow this link you will find full details 2009 flying star analysis follow this link.

Cautions for month: Take extra care in the months of July, August and December and make sure you check back with us monthly to get your updates for the month.

Your lucky sector:

(astrological zone) is the Northwest (322.5º – 337.5º) of the home or office. Although the northwest is your astrological zone, this may not be the best direction for you to face when seated at work or doing anything important. To find your personal favourable or unfavourable directions, you have to look at your personal Gua number based on the year you were born.

Try to face one of your personal favourable directions when you are doing something important or when seated at your work desk. To find your personal favourable or unfavourable directions, you have to look at your personal Gua number based on the year you were born.

Be careful if your main door, bedroom or office or any other important room is located in the north, west or northeast this year 2009 and make sure you follow the 2009 Flying Star (Xuan Kong) recommendations. If your office or bedroom is located in the west, northeast, east or north please be aware that in the months of April & July 2009 you should make sure you at least place a Wu Lou or six Chinese coins tied in a row with red ribbon for the month especially if you are not in good health or very stressed. To further enhance 2009 check out the monthly almanac, flying stars and animal predictions as it not only gives you advice of good and bad days to carry out certain tasks it also advises you if it is good for your animal sign.

If you would like to be informed in advance of the monthly, annual and fixed flying stars for the rest of your life giving you the ultimate control of your home or business, you should consider our advanced Feng Shui software; it is used by thousands of Feng Shui Masters, Practitioners and students throughout the world. Combining this with our new incredible and extremely powerful Tong Shu Almanac date selection software this will make 2009 a better year indeed.

East is the location and direction of the Three Killings

When at work, you may sit facing the east direction if this is one of your personal good directions, but do not sit with your back to the east or you may find unscrupulous people working against you or you may encounter undue gossip and back stabbing during the year. Because the east has the #7 red robbery star combined with the three killings this makes the east very negative in 2009 and it needs a very powerful cure to prevent legal issues and loss of wealth. An extremely powerful cure in 2009 and can only be used in certain years is by placing a water coloured (blue) Buddha holding a Ru Yi and wealth ingot, this powerful cure is very effective at protecting wealth as financial losses can be made through legal problems and because wealth is very important in 2009 you need specific cures relevant to the potential problem. You can only use this particular cure in the east in 2009 because the Buddha (Fo Hu Shen Fu), ru yi and wealth ingot are transient cures and if placed correctly not only can it cure the negative effects of the east in 2009 it can also enhance a very inauspicious area making it an extremely powerful cure and enhancer. The Fo Hu Shen Fu cure and enhancer comes standard in our 2009 cures kit with full instructions for placement.

Northeast is where Tai Sui (Grand Duke of Jupiter) resides in 2009

The NE is severely afflicted in 2009 as we have Tai Sui here for the year but it is also combined with the malicious #3 star that can cause many legal and wealth problems and cures are needed here with a Lou Pan compass and the annual 2009 Master cure which is a cure only known to a few Masters using two large Dragon coins with eight pieces of Jasper Hematite quartz crystals arranged in a very special way. With Tai Sui, you may rely on him for support in that you may sit with him in the northeast and face the southwest. Do not confront him by undertaking any renovation or construction work in the northeast or by sitting in a position that is directly opposite him (northeast). In 2009, this means do not sit with your back to the southwest facing northeast even if this is your best direction. Most traditional Chinese families will place a Pi Yao in the southwest of the home facing northeast or if your main door is in the northeast, place it just inside the door facing northeast.

Sui Po (The year breaker)

Sui Po year breaker occupies the division directly opposite Tai Sui Grand Duke, which for 2009 is southwest. You should treat this area the same as the other annual afflictions with no groundbreaking work, renovations or any noisy activities. If disturbed this area can and normally will cause immediate health problems especially for the elderly, so please be very careful. Traditionally to appease Sui Po in an Ox year you need to display gold coloured ingots and six of them if possible, we have included the perfect one in our 2009 cures kit. If you have to carry out work or emergency repairs in the southwest place a six hollow metal rod wind chime (if you are using the 2009 cures kit you do not have to think about it) between the building and where the work is being carried out and ideally you should contact a professional Feng Shui Practitioner to select an auspicious date to start the work or consult our Tong Shu date selection software.

To disperse the effects of the year you should hang a set of six Chinese coins tied with a red ribbon and place it in the west of your home or office this year to control the #2 star, you should also place a six rod metal wind chime in the north along with a set of six Chinese coins tied together with ribbon in your home this year to weaken the #5. Both of these compass sectors should also have a salt water cure as in 2009 there will quite a bit of negative energy. For full details on 2009 flying star analysis follow this link. This is very important in 2009 especially if you have a main door, bedroom, office, lounge or other important room in the west, north or northeast.




Dog
2009 overall it will be a good year with a few ups and downs, play your cards right and follow all the advice here along with the annual stars, the year 2009 should be good for wealth, career and general luck. Those Dogs born in 1934 and 1982 need to be careful in relationships especially if they are married, spend more time this year with your partner as your potential success for the year can cause you to overlook people that are important and this will cause you problems. Unmarried Dogs born in other years can expect new relationships and even rekindle existing ones. Your year will be busy but leave some time for play and make sure you take plenty of rest. Those Dogs born in 1958 (me) and 1970 will have a fantastic year and you can expect amazing opportunities in wealth and business. If you were born 1958 (me again) you must take time out to relax and watch what you eat.

Your busy lifestyle can cause you stomach problems this year so please be careful, I would place a brass Wu Lou beside your bed especially if it is located in the north or west. You should be careful signing contracts this year so make sure you read all the small print and do not let yourself be conned by someone sweet or fast talking.

With regards to wealth, business and career, 2009 can be a year of seeds you planted over the last few years which will now blossom, so please make the most of this year as the wind is behind you; this is particularly true for Dogs born in 1958. Do not think though that all this means you can just sit back and let the good times happen, hard work is still needed by you. Young Dogs born in 1994 will do well this year but they should ideally carry an image of a Rabbit for protection, as should all Dogs in 2009. This is a great year to reflect on your life and be honest with yourself, our true character is what we do when we think no one is looking, be true to yourself and help as many people as you can in 2009, you will get real rewards from this, read my words again, this could change your life and expect good changes in 2009, reputation is what the world thinks a person is; character is what they really are. Enjoy your year, it will be great.

You are in affinity with the Rabbit. For your protection, you should have a key chain pendant of a Rabbit.

To enhance wealth and career in 2009 place four pieces of deep smoky quartz crystal, a piece of deep blue sodalite crystal together with four very auspicious i-ching coins in the south, this cure is extremely important in 2009 and can only be used in certain years, you also must place eight pieces of Jasper Hematite quartz crystal (you should not use normal hematite) along with two larger than average auspicious Chinese i-ching coins in the northeast, the coins must be placed in a certain order and if you follow this link you will find full details 2009 flying star analysis follow this link.

Cautions for month: Take extra care in the months of February and November and make sure you check back with us monthly to get your updates for the month.

Your lucky sector: (astrological zone) is the Northwest (292.5º – 307.5º) of the home or office.

If you are relocating your desk this year to face one of your favourable personal directions, please be aware of the directions and locations of the annual afflictions. If you are unsure of your Gua and best directions follow this link or maybe consider using our Feng Shui software that calculates Gua, Chinese animal including element, flying stars, annual, fixed and monthly and so much more.

Be careful if your main door, bedroom or office or any other important room is located in the north, west or northeast this year 2009 and make sure you follow the 2009 Flying Star (Xuan Kong) recommendations. If your office or bedroom is located in the west, northeast, east or north please be aware that in the months of April & July 2009 you should make sure you at least place a Wu Lou or six Chinese coins tied in a row with red ribbon for the month especially if you are not in good health or very stressed. To further enhance 2009 check out the monthly almanac, flying stars and animal predictions as it not only gives you advice of good and bad days to carry out certain tasks it also advises you if it is good for your animal sign.

If you would like to be informed in advance of the monthly, annual and fixed flying stars for the rest of your life giving you the ultimate control of your home or business, you should consider our advanced Feng Shui software; it is used by thousands of Feng Shui Masters, Practitioners and students throughout the world. Combining this with our new incredible and extremely powerful Tong Shu Almanac date selection software this will make 2009 a better year indeed.

East is the location and direction of the Three Killings

When at work, you may sit facing the east direction if this is one of your personal good directions, but do not sit with your back to the east or you may find unscrupulous people working against you or you may encounter undue gossip and back stabbing during the year. Because the east has the #7 red robbery star combined with the three killings this makes the east very negative in 2009 and it needs a very powerful cure to prevent legal issues and loss of wealth. An extremely powerful cure in 2009 and can only be used in certain years is by placing a water coloured (blue) Buddha holding a Ru Yi and wealth ingot, this powerful cure is very effective at protecting wealth as financial losses can be made through legal problems and because wealth is very important in 2009 you need specific cures relevant to the potential problem. You can only use this particular cure in the east in 2009 because the Buddha (Fo Hu Shen Fu), ru yi and wealth ingot are transient cures and if placed correctly not only can it cure the negative effects of the east in 2009 it can also enhance a very inauspicious area making it an extremely powerful cure and enhancer. The Fo Hu Shen Fu cure and enhancer comes standard in our 2009 cures kit with full instructions for placement.

Northeast is where Tai Sui (Grand Duke of Jupiter) resides in 2009

The NE is severely afflicted in 2009 as we have Tai Sui here for the year but it is also combined with the malicious #3 star that can cause many legal and wealth problems and cures are needed here with a Lou Pan compass and the annual 2009 Master cure which is a cure only known to a few Masters using two large Dragon coins with eight pieces of Jasper Hematite quartz crystals arranged in a very special way. With Tai Sui, you may rely on him for support in that you may sit with him in the northeast and face the southwest. Do not confront him by undertaking any renovation or construction work in the northeast or by sitting in a position that is directly opposite him (northeast). In 2009, this means do not sit with your back to the southwest facing northeast even if this is your best direction. Most traditional Chinese families will place a Pi Yao in the southwest of the home facing northeast or if your main door is in the northeast, place it just inside the door facing northeast.

Sui Po (The year breaker)

Sui Po year breaker occupies the division directly opposite Tai Sui Grand Duke, which for 2009 is southwest. You should treat this area the same as the other annual afflictions with no groundbreaking work, renovations or any noisy activities. If disturbed this area can and normally will cause immediate health problems especially for the elderly, so please be very careful. Traditionally to appease Sui Po in an Ox year you need to display gold coloured ingots and six of them if possible, we have included the perfect one in our 2009 cures kit. If you have to carry out work or emergency repairs in the southwest place a six hollow metal rod wind chime (if you are using the 2009 cures kit you do not have to think about it) between the building and where the work is being carried out and ideally you should contact a professional Feng Shui Practitioner to select an auspicious date to start the work or consult our Tong Shu date selection software.

To disperse the effects of the year you should hang a set of six Chinese coins tied with a red ribbon and place it in the west of your home or office this year to control the #2 star, you should also place a six rod metal wind chime in the north along with a set of six Chinese coins tied together with ribbon in your home this year to weaken the #5. Both of these compass sectors should also have a salt water cure as in 2009 there will quite a bit of negative energy. For full details on 2009 flying star analysis follow this link. This is very important in 2009 especially if you have a main door, bedroom, office, lounge or other important room in the west, north or northeast.

Make New Friends But Keep The Old


Keeping the friend you make

Once friendships are formed, they should not be neglected if the people involved want them to last. Contact, flexibility, and conflict resolution are three elements that are needed for friendships to continue. Friendships can be maintained by the pleasure that people get from spending time together.

Busy lives make it difficult for some to spend much time together, but it is important to maintain contact if the relationship is to continue. Some ways to keep in touch might be:

  • Call often. Telephone calls don't have to take long but allow you to keep in touch.
  • If you use e-mail, send frequent messages.
  • Send occasional special cards or notes.
  • Send photographs to each other.
  • Spend time doing activities you both enjoy.
  • Go to lunch together. Set a designated day of the month to meet even if it is fast food or brown bag.

Flexibility is important in maintaining relationships. Be understanding when plans have to change and be willing to see things from the other person's point of view. When resolving conflict, honesty and open communication are important.

Some hints for keeping friends include:

  • Be a good listener. Don't be judgmental and don't offer advice unless asked.
  • Respect the other person's point of view. You don't have to agree, but respect the right of each person to offer an opinion.
  • Never betray a trust. Violating confidences can ruin a relationship.
  • Support and praise your friends; love them in spite of their faults.
McLean County Unit

Question about Friendship?

What's the actual meaning of Friendship?
How well do each of us understand this word "Friendship"?

How deep or how well must a
"be friends" relationship between
each other be to able
one to call the relationship as Friendship?
Must we be super duper buddies before/now 'or' must all friends be best friends before are able to consider or to call this type of relationship as Friendship?

Article by McLean County Unit :
People use the word "friend" in a variety of ways.
  • A friend might be a casual acquaintance or someone who provides us with a close lifelong relationship.
  • Friends might be defined as those who know us well and are fond of us. However, there is no one definition of friendship.
A friend can be an ally or sympathizer. Researchers have noted that emotional intimacy and companionship are the types of support provided most often by friends. Of all our relationships, friendship is the most voluntary.
Research has found that friendships may become more important to our morale and overall well being as we get older. Friendship may be more important in older adulthood than during any other time of life. Many older adults live alone and reach out to friends for companionship. Retirement, health problems, and death of loved ones may lead to isolation for those who do not have friends.
Friendship can be a valuable resource that helps us maintain our independence, promotes self-esteem, provides role modeling, and encourages social activities. Friends can contribute to our feelings of competence, stability, encouragement, and satisfaction with life. They can also offer help and support in times of need by providing service, advice, and emotional stability.

Summary

Friendships are an important part of life at every age. They can provide companionship and emotional support throughout life. New friendships bring opportunities for growth, learning, and new experiences. As a person ages, relationships change when friendships are lost due to poor health, moving away, or death. That is why it is important to continue to make new friends, but keep the old.

Friday, December 12, 2008

Feng Shui with Lilian Too

Photograph of Lilian Too & Me
Yup! I'm a fan of Lilian Too and even bought quite a number of her books.

About Lilian in brief
(taken from Wikipedia):

Lillian Too (born 1946 in Penang) is a best-selling author, television personality and Feng ShuiMalaysia. She has written over 80 books on the subject of Feng Shui, which have been translated into 30 languages. Her books have sold well in excess of 6 million copies, making bestseller lists around the globe. practitioner from

A graduate with an MBA from the Harvard Business School in 1976, Lillian embarked on a career in the corporate world and became the first woman in Malaysia to head a public listed company. In 1982, she became the first woman in Asia to be appointed CEO of a bank (Hong Kong's Dao Heng Bank). After her stint in banking, she worked with prominent Hong Kong tycoon, Dickson Poon (former husband of Michelle Yeoh), as executive deputy chairman of his group of companies.
She is married with one daughter, Jennifer.





Lilian Too & Jennifer Too Fortune & Feng Shui 2009 books for individual animal horoscope are already out & available at WOFS Boutique and at all major bookshops.

About the book :

This book brings detailed personalized readings of luck prospects and horoscopes for 2009. Here are the year's insights and the monthly readings on what to expec in terms of career, business, health, love and relationships. There are important new tips on how to suppress the year's afflictions and how to enhance your personalized feng shui. This book helps to instantly improve your vitality and chi essence, empower your aura with invaluable new secrets and enhance your surroundings to maximize 2009's exciting prosperity potential.
This book contains detailed readings on:
  • The kind of luck the year brings you
  • Tracking your luck from month to month
  • Opportunities for increasing income
  • Expanding career mobility
  • Attracting love and a lasting soul mate
  • Suppressing 2009's feng shui afflictions
  • Substantially improving your wealth
  • Enhancing your personalized feng shui
I bought myself a copy few months back. Here's mine :-



You are in a year of BOAR if you are born in
1947, 1959, 1971, 1983 and 2007

Boar's overall fortune & Feng Shui in brief-summary :
Those of you born in the year of the Boar will feel lack of vitality in 2009, so, it is important to strengthen yourself, physically as well as mentally to ensure you are able to enjoy the really excellent cosmic energy of the Ox year.
The 38 year old boar (born in 1971), benefits from superb financial luck, but success for you and all the boar will be an uphill battle.
The problem is a serious absence of motivation caused by a strange listlessness.


Find out th
e Boar Remedies and Enhancers:
1)
BOAR'S PROTECTIVE DEITY
The Manual of Astrological Science explains that there are 8 Great Bodhistavas who act as Guardian Deities to the twelve animal signs. Amitabha protects the Boar.
Amitabha is a celestial Buddha of Infinite Light who heads the Lotus Family of Buddhas and the Pure Land School of Mahayana Buddhism. Amitābha possesses infinite merits from good deeds over countless past lives as a Bodhisattva named Dharmakara. Helps overcoe bad luck and brings a smooth and peaceful life to Boar and Dog born.
2) BOAR'S ZODIAC HOUSE
House of Domesticity
The House created by a pairing of the Dog with Boar will be extremely beneficial to both, especially if they are husband and wife. In such Dog-Boar relationships, the Dog will resume the leadership role while the Boar happily goes along with the Dog's ideas.

3)
BOAR'S SECRET FRIEND Place your secret friend (TIGER) in the living area of your house or on your work desk to tap into lots of support and goodwill towards yourself.
4) BOAR'S ALLIES Place figurines of your allies (RABBIT & SHEEP) in your animal sign sector to borrow their luck. This brings helpful people into your life.

To know further details, please get a copy for yourself!


As for the others animal sign :
1) 2009 RAT
2) 2009 Ox
3) 2009 Tiger
4) 2009 Rabbit
5) 2009 Dragon
6) 2009 Snake
7) 2009 Horse
8) 2009 Sheep
9) 2009 Monkey
10) 2009 Rooster
11) 2009 Dog
12) 2009 Boar

Link to find our KUA number :
Lilian Too's KUA number calculator

Other Links :
Lilian Too's Chinese Horoscope



Thursday, December 11, 2008

10 Famous New Year Resolutions For 2009

While browsing away to find more motivation materials and sites, found 10 most famous New Year resolutions for year 2009 that wish to share with all.
It seems to be the same 10 top resolutions every year. Why? I guess that it is because they are just so hard to keep!


1. Get Out of Debt

This is a must for us to achieve financial freedom and to able us to retire earlier. A good financial planning is needed
and make sure to stick to the plan. This require a great amount of will power. You can do it! Believe in yourself.

2. Lose Weight and Get in Shape
This is one of the most famous resolution that we makes year after year! People just can't seem to get into shape. This also require lots of will power, so tell yourself that you can do it! If you believe in yourself you can get yourself in shape. For some people this will involve losing a lot of weight while for others is might just be getting into shape for good health. Sign up for a gym with friends or family members to ensure social support.
3. Enjoy Life More

Take a Vacation
Not many people go on vacations, either from the lack of funds or the lack of time.
But time is precious and you need to enjoy your life each and every day. So go on your vacation.
Vacation is a time to escape from the daily routine of life to relax and spend time with loved ones.

4. Get Organized or Reorganize Life
a) Get a raise or promotion at work :
Have you been in a working slump for the last couple years.
It's about time that you show your boss your worth and that you deserve to be rewarded for the hard work that you put in at work.

Set high goals and work and follow through on them.
Be a leader and a problem solver.
Your boss will notice your improved dedication and hard work and will reward you for them with a raise or promotion.

b) Find a New Job
For all of those who are unhappy in your work, maybe this is the year that you start looking for a new job.
Don't suffer anymore day after day with a job that you hate.
If you have the resources and good resume then don't be afraid to start looking for other options.

5. Learn Something New
Have you vowed to make this year the year to learn something new? Take some risks this year
doing things or hobby that you'd like to take up years ago such as learn how to play piano, learn other languages, take up yoga classes, painting, cooking classes or just how to fix your computer? Whether you take a course or read a book, you’ll find education to be one of the easiest, most motivating New Year’s resolutions to keep. Challenge your mind in the coming year, and your horizons will expand. Whatever it is, try something new that challenges your mind
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6. Be a better person
7. Quit Smoking
8. Quit Drinking
9. Spend more time with family
You should have to think of quality time, and how you should spend it with your family.
Family is the most important thing in a person's life, but some people don't seem to realize this.
If you're one of these people that spends more time at work and on business calls then talking with your spouse,
son or daughter then you should seriously consider this New Year's resolutions. Time is too precious to let slip away.

10. Help Others and Be More Charitable
Helping others is a fantastic way to help yourself. This can be an rewarding endeavor.


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Monday, December 8, 2008

Year 2008 going to 2009

Like any other year, Year 2008 is going to end very soon and another new year is coming again in no time....., whether we like it or not, we have no other choice but to welcome it with open arms, mind & soul.


Talking about NEW YEAR!.., around this time, it has always been a time for looking back to the past on what have we gone through or done, have or have not fulfill or succeed, and more importantly, looking forward to the coming year. It's a time to reflect on the changes we want or need to make and resolve to follow through on those changes.
Will this coming year 2009 be the year that I will finally obtained my life goal(s)?
Have been looking through and calculated the overall total balance this morning on those credit cards bills of mine, when and how on earth would I be able to achieve my financial freedom with that accumulated figure??!!
This will be the time when the old fashion and common question pop-up :
NEW YEAR RESOLUTION!!!
What will be our new year resolutions? What would our new year resolution for this coming new year be like? Yours leh?

My new year resolution? huh? mmmm.... have not given much thought yet... or did I ever have any new year resolutions made before this.... I've passed 37 years of my life and did I ever really sit down and spend time thinking back all those years that I've spend, on how I've spend it or have not spend it the way it suppose to be!?!? mmm...
Did I or did I not use all those years wisely? Suddenly this phrase came up, "Live Life to the fullest"
Well..., did I? I wonder... Am I happy with what or who I am right now?
All sorts of questions keep rushing in my head... Panic attack!! esp. because most questions are un-answerable that need answers....

I've came across this phrase somewhere recently :
Life is short, and everyone should live life to the fullest! You only get one chance to live. Make it the best. Each person lives differently, so make the spotlights shine on your life!
This make me think.... really think & wonder...that I might be or I am indeed a very slow and un-mature in thinking "of" and "for" my own self all these years. I've used up and needed 37 years to wake me up and realize on the actual meaning of "MY" Live, "MY" Goals and many other facts of life that I been trying to ignore and neglected. But now, just like waking up right after a bad, "blur-blur" dream, it makes me real scare deep inside.... OMG! Panic attack again! I've been left far way behind of dreams, times, days and years from many peoples of my age or even those younger than me. Peoples and friends are achieving their life goals, needs, financial freedom and some might and can even retired in no time, anytime or probably next year or by 40-45 but me?
Guess I better start doing my long overdue homework now and put my extra effort in planning & be many many times faster and harder now or else, I will never ever catch up with all those wasted & lost years....
mmmm.....

Need to find ways and read more materials to boost my motivation level & spirit to plan and achieve my dream goals from now on. Well, this got to be my 1st new year resolution to start off with.

OK, at least I've found one to start off with.
How about you, you... and you out there?!?!?
Good Luck and Happy New Year to all.